Toys rarely fail because they were used. They fail because they were put away damp, washed with the wrong cleaner, or stored somewhere the air never moves. A five-minute routine after each session is the whole difference between a toy that lasts years and one that turns sticky in three months. This page covers the routine material by material, the drying step most people rush, and the storage conditions that matter in a UAE home where the air conditioning runs all day and the bathroom humidity does not.
Before you start
Unplug any charging cable and keep charging ports away from water. Only fully waterproof toys carrying a rating such as IPX7 should ever be submerged — a toy described simply as "water-resistant" is wiped, not soaked.
Why does the material decide how you clean a toy?
Material decides almost everything that follows: how you wash it, how long it takes to dry, whether it can be shared, and how many months of use you get. The single property that matters is porosity — whether the surface absorbs liquid into the body of the material or keeps it on the outside.
The material itself is what decides how a toy should be washed, and the two materials are compared here
A non-porous surface keeps everything on top, so a rinse carries residue away and the material dries in minutes. A porous surface draws a little moisture inward, which is why a porous toy that feels dry on the outside can still be damp in the core. That trapped moisture is the source of the smell and the tacky surface people describe as "the toy went bad".
| Material | Porous? | Wash with | Drying time | Can be shared |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Silicone | No | Warm water + mild toy cleanser | Minutes | Yes, after washing |
| ABS / hard shell | No | Damp cloth only, never soak | Immediate wipe | Yes, wipe between |
| TPE | Yes | Warm water + mild toy cleanser | Hours, inside and out | Only with a fresh wash |
| Metal (chrome or steel) | No | Warm water + mild soap | Immediate | Yes, after washing |
| Gel / jelly blends | Yes | Warm water, gentle handling | Hours | Not recommended |
If you own one toy and want the least work, choose silicone. If you own a TPE toy because you wanted a softer, more skin-like feel, accept the longer drying time — that is the trade you made, and it is a fair one as long as you do not skip the dry.
How do you clean silicone?
Silicone is the easiest material to live with because it is non-porous and does not hold moisture. Warm water, a mild toy cleanser, a rinse, and a pat dry is the whole routine. There is no soaking time and no powder step.
- 1 Rinse under warm running water to lift surface residue before you apply anything.
- 2 Apply a mild toy cleanser with your hands. An abrasive sponge or a scrubbing brush can dull the surface finish over time.
- 3 Rinse thoroughly until the water runs clear and no slick feeling remains.
- 4 Pat dry with a clean towel or leave it to air-dry on a rack. Silicone dries quickly, so this is a two-minute step, not an overnight one.
- 5 Store only once the surface and any seams are completely dry.
Two things to avoid on silicone: silicone-based lubricant, which softens and eventually breaks down the surface, and hot water above what you would wash your own hands in, which does no favours to a motorised body. Neither is a disaster once, but both shorten the life of the piece if repeated.
How do you clean TPE, and why does it need more care?
TPE feels softer and closer to skin than silicone, which is exactly why most of the realistic onaholes and masturbators in this shop use it. It is also porous, so it holds a little moisture and must be dried fully before it goes anywhere near storage.
- 1 Flush the internal channels with warm running water until they run clear. Hold the piece so water drains out rather than pooling inside.
- 2 Wash inside and out with a mild toy cleanser, working into the channel texture rather than just the opening.
- 3 Rinse again until the water runs clear, then shake out as much water as you can.
- 4 Pat the outside dry and leave it to air-dry fully, with the channel open to the air. This step cannot be rushed — a TPE core takes hours, not minutes.
- 5 Dust lightly with renewal powder once completely dry, then store.
The powder step is not cosmetic. Dry TPE slowly releases the oils that keep it supple, so a light dusting puts a barrier between the surface and the air and stops it turning tacky. A thin coat is enough; a heavy coat just leaves residue that you will wash off next time.
Three channels on this one means three passages to flush and dry — the most time-consuming part of the routine.
How do you clean hard shells, handles and control bodies?
Hard plastic casings, handle bodies and control pods are wipe-only. A damp cloth with a little mild soap is enough, followed by an immediate dry. Do not soak them, and do not hold them under a running tap.
Water reaching a charging port or a motor housing is the usual way an otherwise perfectly good toy stops working. If the port has a rubber cover, close it before you go anywhere near the sink, and dry around the seam afterwards. Magnetic charging contacts need the same treatment — dry them before the toy goes back on the cable, because moisture on the contacts is how you get corrosion that looks like a dead battery.
Why is drying the step that actually matters?
If you take one thing from this page, take this: never store a toy that is still damp. Moisture trapped against a soft material, or sealed inside a closed box, is what causes the smell, the surface breakdown and the discolouration that make people replace toys long before they are worn out.
The trap is a toy that feels dry on the outside. A TPE channel, a textured sleeve or a hollow masturbator can hold water well inside while the outer surface is bone dry. That is the piece that goes tacky in a drawer. Dry it with the opening to the air, not folded shut, and give it the time it needs.
- Pat the outside with a clean towel first — it removes most of the water in seconds and makes air-drying faster.
- Stand a channel toy upright or lay it open so air can pass through, rather than sealing it flat.
- Give it hours rather than minutes. Silicone is done quickly; TPE and gel blends are not.
- Do not speed it up with a hairdryer on hot, a radiator, or direct sun. Heat warps soft materials and shortens their life.
Where should you store a toy in a UAE home?
A cool, dry cupboard shelf beats a bathroom every time. Bathrooms in the UAE run humid all year because the air conditioning does not reach them, and a bathroom drawer is the single most common place for a toy to go wrong.
- Keep the box or pouch it arrived in — it is shaped for the toy, keeps dust off, and stops it knocking against other items.
- Choose a bedroom cupboard or a drawer away from the window, not a bathroom cabinet or a shelf above a shower.
- Keep toys apart rather than in a pile. Some soft materials react when stored in direct contact for months, and the marks do not come out.
- Avoid direct sunlight and any spot near a radiator or heater. Heat softens and warps most materials over time.
- Do not seal toys inside airtight plastic bags. A little airflow is better than a sealed, humid space.
How do you keep a toy discreet in a shared home?
Most people sharing a flat or a family home are less worried about cleaning than about being asked what is in the drawer. The answer is usually a plain container that does not look like it belongs to anything in particular.
- A plain storage box with a lid does the job better than a branded pouch left on a shelf.
- A lockable case is worth it if you share a room or expect guests to open drawers.
- Pick the storage spot before the first order arrives, so a parcel does not sit on a table waiting for a decision.
- Keep the outer packaging plain. Our parcels arrive unbranded with nothing on the label that names the contents, so there is nothing to explain if someone signs for it.
What should you not do when cleaning a toy?
- Do not boil or dishwash a toy, even a waterproof one. Seals and motor housings are not built for it.
- Do not use alcohol wipes, bleach or household surface cleaner on soft materials. They dry the surface out and leave residue you do not want against skin.
- Do not use silicone-based lubricant on a silicone toy. It softens the surface over repeated use.
- Do not store a toy damp, and do not store one inside a sealed plastic bag.
- Do not share a porous toy without washing and drying it fully first.
- Do not put a wet toy back on a magnetic charger — dry the contacts first.
How often should you clean, and can you share a toy?
Clean before the first use and after every use, including a short session. Residue that is not washed off builds up in texture and in seams, and a toy that is consistently left dirty stops feeling clean however hard you wash it later.
For sharing, non-porous materials are the easier ones to work with: silicone, hard shells and metal can be washed properly between users. A porous TPE toy can be shared too, but it needs a full wash and a full dry each time rather than a rinse. If you plan to share regularly, a silicone design or a fresh condom over the toy takes the guesswork out of it.
Which lubricant is safe with which material?
Water-based lubricant is the safe default across every material we stock. It rinses off with warm water, it does not damage silicone or TPE, and it does not leave an oily film that has to be scrubbed out of texture.
| Lubricant base | Silicone toys | TPE toys | Metal / ABS | Rinses with water |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Water-based | Safe | Safe | Safe | Yes |
| Silicone-based | Avoid | Avoid | Safe | No, needs soap |
| Oil-based | Avoid | Avoid | Safe | Hard to remove |
The reason silicone lubricant is a problem on a silicone toy is simple: like dissolves like. Repeated contact softens the surface, and once a silicone moulding goes tacky it does not come back. On a soft TPE toy an oil-based formula is the same story, with the added difficulty that it does not rinse away, so it sits in the texture.
Compare the lubricants we stock, by base and by bottle size.
Browse lubricantsWhat about motorised toys and charging?
A motorised toy adds two rules to everything above: keep the port dry, and do not submerge anything that is not rated for it.
- Close the charging port cover before washing, if the toy has one.
- Wipe the body with a damp cloth rather than holding it under a tap unless it carries a waterproof rating.
- Dry the port and the contacts completely before recharging.
- Charge away from water — not on a bathroom counter next to a running tap.
- If a toy stops charging after a wash, give the contacts a dry with a soft cloth before assuming the battery has failed.
How long should a toy last, and when do you replace it?
Silicone and hard-shell toys last for years with a routine this simple. TPE wears faster, because it is softer and porous, and most TPE pieces are replaced when the surface starts to look or feel different rather than at a set age.
Replace rather than rescue when any of these show up: a persistent smell that survives a full wash and dry, a surface that stays tacky after powdering, visible cracks or tears at a seam, or a motor that runs unevenly. None of those are fixable, and none are worth using.
Frequently asked questions
How often should I clean a toy?
Can I use soap instead of toy cleanser?
Why has my TPE toy gone sticky?
Is it safe to share toys?
Can I put a toy in the dishwasher?
How long does TPE take to dry?
Do I need renewal powder?
Is it okay to store toys in the bathroom?
What should I do if water gets into a charging port?
Can I clean a toy with alcohol wipes?
The short version
- Material decides everything: silicone is non-porous and dries in minutes; TPE is porous and needs hours to dry inside and out.
- Drying is the step that matters most. Never store a toy that is still damp, even if the outside feels dry.
- Store in a cool, dry cupboard rather than a bathroom, keep toys apart, and do not seal them in airtight bags.
- Water-based lubricant is the safe default for every material. Silicone lubricant softens silicone toys; oil-based is hard to rinse out of TPE.
- For motorised toys, keep the port and the charging contacts dry — that is what stops a working toy looking like a dead battery.
Sources
- [1] Browse body-safe silicone — Non-porous mouldings that need the least upkeep
- [2] Choosing a lubricant — Which base is safe on which material
- [3] Delivery, packaging and cash on delivery — What the outer parcel looks like
Sources are listed so you can check what we say against the original. We describe product attributes only and make no medical or health claims.